a fellating lover of mine commited suicide

[Teignub]

[quote name="cat hallucination"]
[quote name="Johnny"] but surely at least a decent chunk of people who want to die are thinking clearly.[/quote]



no, this is what i'm arguing against. thats just ridiculous. to me its just immature and a pitiful ignorance of healthy priorities. "gee, i'm really down in life. nothing is working out. i am miserable. THERE IS NO HOPE FOR ME. I KNOW IT." bam. its just a matter of a piss-poor attitde. its just stupid. death is the most miserable thing that happens, and it happens to everyone. why chose it?



and about euthanasia's usual use, its for chronic cancer patients and truly hopeless people.



what i'm saying is that i'll bet that 90 percent of suicides are not hopeless cases. just stupid decisions. mayhem!!!! in the name of the cause of black metal!!! fucking garbage.



@ oinka, i agree with the attention thing, but obviously those who pull it off don't want the attention, maybe some sick motive of revenge, which they don't actually get.



to me, its mostly just pathetic, literally 95% of the time. i know there's no statistic, but my god man. pull it together...AT LEAST!!![/quote]



:facepalm:



this is not a constructive way of looking at the problem.

[Shredlord]

My father killed himself, and I discovered his body.

[zim]

[quote name="Shredlord"]My father killed himself, and I discovered his body.[/quote]



That's probably the worst thing that could ever happen to a person. Can't explain how I feel for you

[Syysysyd]

some people are just arent meant for life, suicide is justifiable in many cases

[Noyka]

[quote name="zim"]
[quote name="Shredlord"]My father killed himself, and I discovered his body.[/quote]



That's probably the worst thing that could ever happen to a person. Can't explain how I feel for you[/quote]

[Abzu]

[quote name="Noyka"]
[quote name="zim"]
[quote name="Shredlord"]My father killed himself, and I discovered his body.[/quote]



That's probably the worst thing that could ever happen to a person. Can't explain how I feel for you[/quote][/quote]

[rocknrolla]

I'm kind of jaded on this. I was 9 when I saw one of my uncles try to kill himself. I had to see him cut his wrists open and bleed out on my living room floor then wake up my grandpa and tell him to drive the dude to the hospital. I was the one that had to sit in the backseat with him to put pressure on his shit. I've known people that have committed suicide, and I feel no pity for em. As fucked up as it may sound/look, I have no pity on em, they chose a way out that is way too easy than rather work their shit out. Suicide is a bullshit way to get out of working out your life.



I've done shit I regret and had to fess up to as well, but fuck that, i got 2 kids and I'm not about to go and off myself cause it gets bad. It always has to get worse before it gets better, that's just a life lesson, you gotta fucking learn to deal with, if not, then hell, quit doing what you're fucking doing. Don't fucking be all emo and off yourself, fucking learn how to cope with life.





....end rant, sorry.

[rocknrolla]

[quote name="dickzilla"]i know i wouldnt want any of my friends and loved ones mourning me for too long.[/quote]





same. I change the flowers at my neice's grave every so often, but I'm past the fact that she passed away a year ago. Try telling my mom to move on and shit, she throws a fucking fit. Dumb bitch.

[zim]

It's hard for some people to let go, I don't blame them.

[rocknrolla]

it is, but hell, life goes on, you can't dwell on the past, otherwise you're gonna waste you're own life. That's what I tell my mom. you just end up getting older and more bitter, and it ain't worth it, you gotta appreciate what you still got.

[Shredlord]

[quote name="zim"]
[quote name="Shredlord"]My father killed himself, and I discovered his body.[/quote]



That's probably the worst thing that could ever happen to a person. Can't explain how I feel for you[/quote]



Thank you.

[jawn galliano]

guys, don't worry, we've solved the suicide problem!



just tell your suicidal friends, relatives, or associates that they need to just work their problems out.



if that doesn't work, tell them to pull their shit together! voila!

[supa tuna]

[quote name="Famous Mortimer"]guys, don't worry, we've solved the suicide problem!



just tell your suicidal friends, relatives, or associates that they need to just work their problems out.



if that doesn't work, tell them to pull their shit together! voila![/quote]

[captain twat. IV.]

[quote name="rocknrolla"]I'm kind of jaded on this. I was 9 when I saw one of my uncles try to kill himself. I had to see him cut his wrists open and bleed out on my living room floor then wake up my grandpa and tell him to drive the dude to the hospital. I was the one that had to sit in the backseat with him to put pressure on his shit. I've known people that have committed suicide, and I feel no pity for em. As fucked up as it may sound/look, I have no pity on em, they chose a way out that is way too easy than rather work their shit out. Suicide is a bullshit way to get out of working out your life.



I've done shit I regret and had to fess up to as well, but fuck that, i got 2 kids and I'm not about to go and off myself cause it gets bad. It always has to get worse before it gets better, that's just a life lesson, you gotta fucking learn to deal with, if not, then hell, quit doing what you're fucking doing. Don't fucking be all emo and off yourself, fucking learn how to cope with life.





....end rant, sorry.[/quote]



I agree BUT have you yourself ever felt like killing yourself?I have been there,as have alot of people,and it is the worst feeling you could imagine.People feel that way for various reasons and to be honest I don't even know why I used to be like that.I just simply didn't want to be alive in this world.IT WAS ALMOST LIKE IT WAS OUT OF MY CONTROLL but I snapped out of that way of thinking after having a discussion with my father.I like your point about you have to go through hell to reach your paradise,but at the same time I can see why people do this to themselves.

[Verbal]

[quote name="Famous Mortimer"]guys, don't worry, we've solved the suicide problem!



just tell your suicidal friends, relatives, or associates that they need to just work their problems out.



if that doesn't work, tell them to pull their shit together! voila![/quote]







Anyone who thinks "they chose a way out that is way too easy than rather work their shit out. Suicide is a bullshit way to get out of working out your life." is being an idiot.



I'm sure it'd pretty easy to think of a situation where they themselves would commit suicide.

[Grudge]

[quote name="Noyka"]
[quote name="Johnny"]Classic Nokya.



Completely groundless display of ignorance.



Maybe some are, but you can't possibly know that.[/quote]



I said most of the time. There are cases where people really want to die. I've dealt with people who are so desperate for help that the attempt suicide not to kill themselves but to get the help/attention they really want.[/quote]



this is a really weak foundation on which make the claim that "most of the time it's done by attention starved individuals".

[Noyka]

[quote name="ManOfSteel"]
[quote name="Noyka"]
[quote name="Johnny"]Classic Nokya.



Completely groundless display of ignorance.



Maybe some are, but you can't possibly know that.[/quote]



I said most of the time. There are cases where people really want to die. I've dealt with people who are so desperate for help that the attempt suicide not to kill themselves but to get the help/attention they really want.[/quote]



this is a really weak foundation on which make the claim that "most of the time it's done by attention starved individuals".[/quote]



I wasn't saying attention starved, I was saying people who don't know how to ask for help so they cry out by harming themselves and if that doesn't work turn to suicide, most of these cases are teens like the people I was around in highschool.



Adults most of them probably are truly depressed and want to die.

[Verbal]

[quote name="Noyka"]
[quote name="ManOfSteel"]
[quote name="Noyka"]
[quote name="Johnny"]Classic Nokya.



Completely groundless display of ignorance.



Maybe some are, but you can't possibly know that.[/quote]



I said most of the time. There are cases where people really want to die. I've dealt with people who are so desperate for help that the attempt suicide not to kill themselves but to get the help/attention they really want.[/quote]



this is a really weak foundation on which make the claim that "most of the time it's done by attention starved individuals".[/quote]



I wasn't saying attention starved, I was saying people who don't know how to ask for help so they cry out by harming themselves and if that doesn't work turn to suicide, most of these cases are teens like the people I was around in highschool.



Adults most of them probably are truly depressed and want to die.[/quote]



[quote name="Noyka"]I had several friends in highschool who tried to kill themselves but never succeeded. Most of the time people who attempt are really asking for attention.[/quote]



You seem incapable of even writing a coherent sentence.